optional soundtrack: And You Will Know Us By the Trail Of The Dead - Will You Smile Again
(a long song for a really long post - sorry)
So I have decided to take this post down for now. I know that I want to write about what it is like to co-parent my daughter with her father. But I am not sure how to approach it and keep it informative and not let it be an angry rant. Although an angry rant is a good thing from time to time. I just want to make sure that I am consistent in my approach. It is difficult to understand a lot of how I came to my points of view without the full back-story which is not what I want this blog to be about. But I think it is important to talk about as it is a part of my life. I lived in fear of talking about this stuff for a long time while I was in the court process, as everything I said (and often never said) was used against me. I don’t want to censor myself because someone else can’t deal with the reality, but on the other hand I want it to be productive stuff, not bogged down in the negative. Plus, I am able to see the baits and plaguing clearer now and frankly he loves to get a rise. So until I find the balance I am going to wait on these types of posts for now.
Posted in co-parenting, divorce, joint custody, parenting teens
